First Sunday of Advent
November 28, 2004

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Baptism of the Lord—January 9, 2005

Christian Friendship:
Strengthening One Another

Lectionary Readings for
Baptism of the Lord
Year “A”
Isaiah 42:1-9
Psalm 29
Acts 10:34-43
Matthew 3:13-17

Text: Galatians 6:1-6

Listening to the Text

Some crisis events occurred in the Galatian congregation. Paul, in broad strokes, paints both a historical and theological picture for these crisis times by giving them the overall picture of life in the Spirit. Now is the time to sketch in the finer points by splashing on the specific responsibilities for those who are led by the Spirit in healing their fractured relationships. As you listen to the text, what is it saying to you about helping to mend relationships in your church community? What are some of the ways that we mend those broken relationships?

As a church we can help hurting people by restoring them gently, by carrying each other’s burdens, sharing materially and spiritually with their teachers/mentors, and doing good to all people regardless of their economic or social status. Be patient and kind to those of the household of faith. As an individual we can help hurting people by controlling what we say or how we act towards others. What we sow in attitude is what we also reap from others. Our attitudes towards others are important.

The thrust of this last chapter to the Galatians reminds us that as Christians we must be partners in the faith as friends. The word “philadelphia” translates to human affection or brotherly/sisterly love. Literally, it means to show affectionate friendship. Charles Swindoll quotes Samuel Coleridge in his poem titled, “Youth and Age” with a line that compares friendship to a sheltering tree. Swindoll writes, “Friends are those whose lives are like branches. They provide shade, they provide refuge from the demanding, irritating, and searing rays of the hot sun. You can find comfort by them. You can find strength near them. They are tree-like in that they bear fruit that provides nourishment and encouragement.” As you listen to the text, how does this apply to your congregation and to you personally?

Engaging the Text

While the Christian life is a one-on-one relationship with God, we do not make the journey alone. The Christian walk is a shared hike. Throughout this section Paul is giving guidance on how to accomplish this journey.

Maxie Dunnam shares some thoughts from Truman Capote’s Other Voices, Other Rooms, where the hero is about to walk over a swollen, murky creek along a heavy but rooting beam. He quotes Capote, “. . . stepping gingerly . . . he felt he would never reach the other side; always he would be balanced there, suspended between land in the dark and alone. Then feeling the board shake as Idabel started across, he remembered that he had someone to be together with. And he could go on.” Dunnam then shares his feelings and thoughts, “Isn’t this our experience? It certainly has been mine. I shiver at the thought of having to go it alone. I get chills when I consider where I might be if at the right time I had not felt the board shake because someone was walking with me!”#

Digging through the text one can begin to feel the interrelatedness and interdependence as Paul builds the case for us cooperating and living together as Christians. Paul’s heart would break as he heard of church frictions and fractures as should any Christian’s heart break at such times. The theme of fellowship and strengthening one another occurs often in Paul’s writings and is the theme of the first six verses of the sixth chapter of Galatians. How does this interdependence play out in life? Paul would give us the understanding that it is interdependence as friends in fellowship with one another—hurting when others hurt, laughing when others laugh, crying when others cry. It is interdependence in spiritual matters by sharing the “good news” with others and partnering with them in the journey through Bible study, prayer, church attendance and service together.

This interrelatedness and interdependence also means that we value one another. People are important. Part of my ministerial assignment is to travel across the United States and Canada. As I travel, one of my major concerns revolves around the perception that some people have that their opinions, ideas, and thoughts are not important. They feel that their value as a person and Christian has lessened to the point that they are no longer needed and made to feel unwanted. The truth is that all people need to feel wanted, loved, accepted and needed—valued. Paul challenges the church to value its people. Even if someone is caught in a “sin” they are still valuable to God, the Kingdom and the church. That is why Paul writes, “Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently” (Galatians 6:1).

This interrelatedness and interdependence also manifests itself in availability. The concept of being available to one another means we take time for people because we love them in Christ. This love is blind to nationality, appearance, financial status, social status, age, or anything that may prejudice others. Agape love reaches out and is available to one and all! This interrelatedness and interdependence helps us to understand we are people of integrity with one another (Galatians 6:3-4). We cannot help or share with anyone if we have a low self-esteem or a bloated self-image. God has given us himself and we are only as strong as he is and only as good as he is and only as forgiven and loved as he gives. We can only give advice to a friend in difficulty if we know that we have Christ-assurance of who we are in him. Only then can we bridge some burdens, dangerous difficulties, and shaky ground to be there for brothers and sisters in Christ. This interrelatedness and interdependence is a ministry of friendship that shares spiritual support, correction, guidance, healing and restoration.

Preaching the Text

(For the full manuscript of this sermon go to www.preachermagazine.org and click on “Sermons”)

Paul wanted to deliver a message of love and care for one another as he wrote this passage. The message has not changed, nor has the need. People desperately need to encounter the truth that the church is a safe haven for them to come to at any time. It is a hospital for the spiritually sick who need to be bandaged and find a place of healing. In this sermon I state, “What the church needs along with its great theology, beautiful hymns, glorious traditions, and incredible buildings is the Spirit of God to ‘twist together’ with its occupants and to strengthen the fellowship one with another. ‘Friends’ is more than a television program. It is an experience to develop.” I firmly believe the church is the legitimate place to develop and grow friendships.

I preached this message to a group of prime-time adults at a retreat in Canada. There were 321 present for the morning devotional. At the end of the message we sang, “One in the Bond of Love” and then broke up into small groups for prayer. I would encourage you as a pastor to select an appropriate piece of music and ask your people to divide into small groups for prayer. Stand back and watch the Holy Spirit do his work! It will be soul satisfying.