Pulpit Voices: What Nazarenes Are Preaching
by Dan Boone
"The Last Time You Cried" - A Lenten Series
The season of Lent is a time of brokenness. We misunderstand the season
when we try to "break ourselves open" by giving up things
and denying ourselves. This denial approach to Lent tends to focus on
our activity, rather than God's activity. This is not to say that there
is no value in self-denial, especially in fasting and other spiritual
disciplines. It is to say that a Godward focus reveals the places where
we have been broken by life in this world. As we attend to God, God
opens us to see our brokenness in the light of the sufferings of Jesus.
This is where our pain connects with his pain, our tears connect with
his tears, our prayers connect with his prayers.
Tears are a telling human response to brokenness. The things that make
people cry are found in the Psalms. Primarily, they comprise the psalms
of lament. Therefore, the Lenten season is a good time for a series
from the psalms that express our hurts.
We used the following titles:
"The Last Time You Cried: Rejection" (Psalm 44). In this Psalm
the people of God are accusing God of failing them, even rejecting them.
We explored the many places humans feel utterly rejected, from a dateless
teenager to an elderly parent in a nursing home. Rejection by people
causes us to wonder where God is. Jesus' cross prayer of forsakenness
becomes our prayer in these times.
"The Last Time You Cried: Abandonment" (Psalm 77). There is
a difference between being purposefully rejected and casually forgotten.
Psalm 77 is asking the hard question of God's faithfulness. Questions
like: "Has God forgotten to be gracious? Are we only a blip on
God's radar screen? Has he lost track of us?"
"The Last Time You Cried: Anger" (Psalm 69). This Psalm is
almost too hot to handle in church. It is the cry of people who have
been so deeply wronged that their only prayer is for swift revenge.
Note carefully what the writer is asking God to do with their enemies.
Humans can get that angry! This psalm gives us permission to take this
anger to God and express it fully and freely.
"The Last Time You Cried: Enemies" (Psalm 109). This Psalm
is even angrier than the week before. We took the theme of enemies and
helped our congregation determine who their enemies are. It is a helpful
thing to admit that there are people in the world who are bent on hurting
you.
In the life of Jesus of Nazareth we find the fullest expression of how
God deals with human pain. It was very easy to hold each Psalm alongside
Jesus en route to the cross. Each Psalm fit easily alongside the life
of Jesus giving it a Christological focus.
One discovery we made in the series was that people wanted to talk about
the questions that were raised. As a way of response we initiated a
very productive Sunday evening coffee hour for those who wanted to discuss
the issues.
Dan Boone is the Senior Pastor of College Church of the Nazarene in
Bourbonnais, Illinois.