• Another highly talented
young minister in our area slipped into moral failure
and lost his minister’s
license this week. I suppose I should be shockproof to
the news by now, yet I never find myself ready to hear
another example.
• An energetic student
in a class I teach at a Christian university recently
wrote me a note confessing her utter despair at her inability
as a Christian to control her drinking problem.
• A Christian friend
and I ran to the store to pick up some folding chairs
for our church. As we secured the chairs in his truck,
I noticed the employees had loaded too many. When I headed
to report the error, my friend stopped me. “Keep
quiet, and let’s
go,”
he said. “Their
loss is the church’s
gain.”
What do these stories have in common? In every case, Christians
responded in ways that seem very unchristian. We expect
our ministers to avoid temptations that lead to moral
failure. We do not easily reconcile Christian discipline
with alcoholism. We assume that Christians are honest
and trustworthy whether anyone is watching or not. Yet
all too often, in a thousand different combinations, stories
like these surface in our churches, Christian universities,
and Bible study groups. Admittedly, these are extreme
cases. More common forms of the problem include voting
for political candidates who oppose Christian values,
watching television programs or movies that promote values
or lifestyles contrary to Christian virtues, and performing
questionable practices at school or in the workplace.
Any time our daily choices do not align with our faith,
we contribute to the problem.
If you’re
like me, every time you hear about inconsistency between
what a Christian says and what he or she does, you question
how such a thing can occur. The answer often lies in the
simple technique of compartmentalization, the separation
of our personal world into two realms. In the sacred realm,
we look, talk, and act like a Christian at church, at
home, or in the company of Christian friends. In the secular
realm, we look, talk, and act an entirely different way.
What we say in our religious world does not always inform
the way we act in the marketplace. It’s
really a “Dr.
Jekyll and Mr. Hyde”
existence. That is, we tailor our conversation and conduct
to the environment in which we find ourselves, much like
a chameleon changes color to match its surroundings.
But Why?
Why do people compartmentalize? At least part of the answer
involves society and the way it informs and affects us.
None of us can totally avoid its influence unless we live
as hermits. Some of the puzzle pieces of society’s
influence include the following:
1. The urge to bring a consumer mentality to faith.
Let’s
face it: as consumers we have a great deal of choice at
the supermarket and the shopping center. Merchants urge
us to “have
it [our] way.”
Why not lay our religious beliefs and practices on the
table, select the ones we like, adjust the ones we want
to change, and discard the ones that cramp our style?
Why not treat religious belief and action like a buffet
where we customize our thought and practice to our own
personal preferences?
2. The urge to build a wall in our thinking between
what we say and what we do. This temptation carefully
avoids the pitfalls of hypocrisy. The word hypocrite
means “putting
on a mask.”
It comes from the ancient theater, where actors held up
a smiling mask to indicate joy or a frowning mask to display
sadness. Actors changed their masks on purpose; they knew
what they were doing. Hypocrites do too. They have at
least some awareness of their inconsistencies. With society’s
temptation to compartmentalize, the left hand simply doesn’t
think about what the right hand is doing. The wall between
the compartments helps us function in two separate worlds
simultaneously.
3. The urge to expose ourselves to the almost endless
supply of information that comes at us from all over the
world every day. We hear news reports from the far-flung
corners of the world; we receive E-mail from people we’ve
never met across the country or around the world. Satellite
dishes and computer connections bring us more information
than we could possibly assimilate into our thinking or
adequately judge. We’re
exposed to too much and at too fast a rate to digest it
properly. What’s
more, like gluttons at a feast, the more we hear, the
more we hunger to hear. Information becomes addictive.
4. The urge to tolerate all beliefs and ideas.
Society calls on us daily to remain open to a variety
of points of view and avoid judging any of them. One belief
system is just as valid as another, we’re
told. Who has the authority to say your views are better
than mine? We’re
urged to leave the question open for discussion and not
come to any quick conclusions. Add this urge to the last
one, and you have an almost endless stream of ideas flowing
into your head that bypasses any filtering system to sort
the right from the wrong.
I visualize this compartmentalization problem like the
chest of drawers in my bedroom. My clean laundry is folded
in stacks of like items and placed in their respective
drawers. Dress socks go in the top drawer; sports socks
occupy the second drawer; T-shirts follow in the next
drawer; underwear goes to the bottom drawer. In compartmentalization,
we sort contradictory ideas and lifestyles into separate
drawers. We cannot reconcile their inconsistency, but
no problem—we just live out of one drawer at church
or with our Christian friends and another drawer at work
or school. As long as we keep the compartments neatly
separated, we don’t
even realize the problem.
What Can We Do?
Does being a citizen of today’s
world doom us inevitably to compartmentalization? A thousand
times no! Jesus prayed for His disciples to be in the
world but not of it (John 17:6-24). Satan cannot outwit
us in this battle as long as we apply Christian principles
to the problem. Consider these steps:
1. Recognize what is taking place. Analyze your
life regularly for compartments in your thinking and living.
Compare Monday’s
routine and vocabulary with Sunday’s.
Look for inconsistencies between what you say you believe
and the way you live.
2. Tear down the wall in your thinking between the
secular and the sacred. Fight society’s
urge to compartmentalize. The Hebrew people in biblical
times did not even have a word in their language for the
secular. For them, all of life was sacred and lived before
God. They sought to be the same people behind closed doors
that they were in public; their goal was to filter every
word, thought, and action through scriptural values.
3. Pass judgment. That’s
no longer politically correct, but it’s
biblical. In Philippians 4:8 Paul gives us a list of criteria
for filtering our thoughts. If what you see on television
or in the marketplace is not true, noble, right, pure,
lovely, admirable, excellent, or praiseworthy, refuse
to allow it to become part of your life. Guard the flow
of information into your mind. Choose to reject all that
does not meet the biblical standard.
4. Live in the Word. The only way you can properly
pass judgment on all that comes to you from your environment
is to read the Bible regularly and inform your mind with
God’s
thoughts and values. My computer automatically gets on
the Internet every Wednesday at noon, downloads the latest
information regarding computer viruses, and checks itself
for hidden problems. We must download information from
God’s
Word and check ourselves regularly for inconsistencies
as well.
5. Remain accountable. The Christian life is
not a solitary one; we need each other. Go to church regularly;
participate in a Bible study fellowship; have a trusted
Christian friend to whom you remain accountable. Talk
about compartmentalization at church, in the home, and
with your best friend. Ask other Christians what they
think about questions for which you don’t
have clear answers. Search the Scriptures together for
God’s
direction in these matters.
Avoid the Trap
Our world is filled with people who live inconsistent
lives. We’ve
come to expect it of our political leaders, media stars,
and sports figures. One reason for these inconsistent
lifestyles is compartmentalization. As Christians we have
an obligation to God, our families, church friends, and
the world to avoid the trap. We are called to be God’s
light to our dark world. One of the best ways we can brightly
reflect God’s
light is to live a lifestyle that plainly demonstrates
the influence of God at work within us—and to live
it consistently.
Frank Moore is vice president for academic
affairs and dean at MidAmerica Nazarene University.